That person I took this from would be Eve-Jennifer
, she's a great artist, y'all should check her out!!! Now let's do this thing! (Just a note, Claire isn't my girlfriends actual name. She doesn't want her actual name being spread on here so I'm respecting that)
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
I'm dating the girl I had a crush on... how does that even work? Can I have a crUSH ON THE PERSON I'M DATING!?!?!?
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
This one, also my first, going almost 9 months strong now!!!! (Coming up August 17th it will be 9 months)
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
It depends on what you mean by change. Nothing drastic. I mean she wanted me to try to grow a goatee so I did. She also wants me to not straighten my hair cus apparently she loves it curly XD
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
Like I said, first relationship.
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
I hope not!!! I don't think Claire's ever cheated on me!? I trust her so I'mma give it a big 'ol NO!!!
7: Have you ever cheated?
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Loyalty to each other, communication, love, that everything is true.
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious Relationship all the way
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
By that definition, none.
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
This isn't a past relationship, but it did happen in this one. Claire, her cousin, 2 of her friends, and I (and her parents of course) all went to Schlitterbahn for Claire's 16th birthday. Most of the time I was (unintentionally) flirting with Claire's cousin like, most of the day. I felt SOOO BAD afterwards. I apologized to Claire so much the next few days. She forgave me though. She said she wasn't really mad, but maybe a little upset... I might have cried just a little, I felt so bad about it XD
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Christianity says that you should wait until marriage, which is my intention. But I can't tell others what to do.
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
It really depends. Like, if it's an illegal (like what Eve said, a 16 dating a 21 y/o), stop. but like, if you're over 18, if it's love, go for it. I kinda made a little bit of a deal about Claire being a year and a half younger than me... but that's not a big thing.
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
I think it could be possible.
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
It could happen. I met Claire irl tho so internet wasn't a factor for me.
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Hmmmmm..... I guess probably if she cheated on me. Like in a major way. It really depends tho, I mean I love the hell out of Claire so I could probably forgive her for most stuff.
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
I like what Eve said for this. If it's abusive in any way
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
Yes, of course
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
If it's love! That's Claire and I. I mean we were really good friends before we started dating. I was so nervous to tell her I liked her cus I didn't wanna fuck up our friendship XD but I did and look at us now. Dating for almost 9 months
23: How many relationships have you had?
Just this one.
24: Do you think love can last forever?
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
No. It's my life, I'll date who I want. (but my parents do completely approve of Claire XD)
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Don't be flirty with other girls when you're already dating someone
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
29: What do you notice first about another person?
Hmmmmmm....... I guess just their entire head region in general. Eyes, Hair, Mouth, everything in the head area
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Straight as heck (totally random thing here. Claire could totally be bi and I'd be none the wiser)
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
I mean Claire abuses me sometimes by not letting me hug her or hold her hand... (I'M SORRY I SHOULDN'T JOKE ABOUT ABUSE. ABUSE IS A SERIOUS THING, DON'T TAKE IT AS A JOKE, EVEN THOUGH WHAT I JUST SAID WAS A JOKE)
33: Do you want to get married one day?
Yes! I'd totally marry Claire when the time is right. After we're done in school and I have a better job.
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed on your arm?
Probably not. That shit is permanent. And God Forbid anything go wrong to where we break up, you're stuck with a name on your arm.
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
36: Are you still a virgin?
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Both are important. Jenna is beautiful inside and out. I got really blessed with her
38: Do you enjoy love films?
It really depends. We went to a romantic orchestral show around Valentines day cus her parents were in it, that was neat.
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
I don't give roses. I give tickets to WWE events, food, etc XD (I'd totally give Claire flowers tho XD)
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
To be honest, anything I get to do with Claire.
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
I have not. I should though
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Hmm... I love Claire. But all of our friends are mutual, so it would be kind of weird. We all go to the same church. But I have to say Claire is more important.
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
The only current friend I want to date right now is Claire! <3
46: Have you ever been "friend-zoned"?
I don't think so?
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Claire X Ian (me XD). Actually famous tho, The Miz X Maryse, John Cena X Nikki Bella, and Daniel Bryan X Brie Bella
48: What's your favorite love song?
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I HOPE NOT
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
Poor but nice. I mean look at me. I'm poor as hell but I guess nice
52: Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/relationships?
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
Not really. I mean I kind of get a little jealous of those couples who hold hands and hug a lot (I like physical contact, holding hands, hugging, etc, but Claire doesn't that much, but that's ok XD)
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)?
Not too important. I mean it's nice to do tho. Claire and I just became F.B.O. (Facebook Official) after almost 9 months XD but to be fair it took me like 7 to actually set that I was in a relationship in the first place
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
Unfortunately... yes... (hold on, let me go grab something so I can show you why in case you don't know.)
Ok, this is a quote from my Deviation: Anxiety, Suicide, Depression, and The Future.:
"Anxiety: "1. a state of uneasiness or tension caused by apprehension of possible future misfortune, danger, etc; worry
2. intense desire; eagerness
3. (Psychology) psychol a state of intense apprehension or worry often accompanied by physical symptoms such as shaking, intense feelings in the gut, etc, common in mental illness or after a very distressing experience."
The best one that fits me, I feel is 1. However, if I were to place a definition of it, tailored to my life, it would be: "feeling that I'm going to loose everyone I have. Feeling like I'm going to loose my friends, my girlfriend, everyone."
What's bad about that, is that all of them have already told me not to. Aud, Claire, Cady, etc, all of them. There's a feeling inside that I can't get over. I just... can't. I feel like if I do one little thing wrong, I'll loose everyone. It's stupid, I know. However, it's my greatest fear. I have this feeling of anxiety almost every day. I just cant get over it... I need some help with it."
If you would like, you can read the whole thing here:
Anxiety, Depression, Suicide, and The Future.(NOTE: Claire, if you start reading this before we have that chance to talk, I ask that you stop until we can talk, I'd rather you find out through me IRL rather than some journal I make on DA. However, if you *must* read on, so be it. You're amazing Claire <3)
Hello everyone, my name is CenaKat. Though some of you may know me by some of my nicknames, such as Kuudere, or Kriss Neo, or you may simply know me as Ian, my name. Very recently I feel like my life, I've been starting to slide downhill again. I don't know why. I have the best church family in the world, I have the absolute best friends in the world (Lookin' at you Aud, Claire, and Cady ofc.) and I have the absolute most phenomenal girlfriend ever. But... why... why do I feel like I'm falling apart? I'm going to explain some things to all y'all, and at the same time I'm going to try and discover why I feel like I do. I'm more than likely going to detail everything in the title. However, the future shouldn't be that bl
(I know you already have Eve, but for those who haven't XD)
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Not necessarily. I never would.
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
I can be both tbh
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Nope. I'm the one who keeps track of the dates and stuff XD then I tell Claire and she's like Eyyyyy XDDD
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
No. Be faithful to one person.
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
To be honest, Claire. She's more important.
62: How do you define "cheating"?
Dating two or more people at once without any of the others knowing. (That's what Eve put, and I agree %100)
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
I don't think so.
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?